Life events · New baby

Financial checklist for a new baby.

The first 30 days have real deadlines; the rest can wait until you've slept. Educational only — not financial advice.

A new baby creates a short list of time-sensitive paperwork and a longer list of money moves that feel urgent but aren't. The job of the first month is simple: don't miss the deadlines that cost you money or coverage. Everything else — the 529, the bigger life insurance policy, the estate plan — can be done deliberately over the next 90 days.

First 30 days — the things with deadlines

1. Add the baby to a health plan within 30 days. Birth is a qualifying event. If both parents have coverage, compare the two plans' family tiers before defaulting to one — the plan that's cheapest for you alone isn't always cheapest for a family.
2. Get the Social Security number. Request it on the birth-certificate paperwork at the hospital. You need it to claim the child as a dependent, open a 529, and add them to most accounts.
3. Start or increase a dependent-care FSA (if you'll pay for childcare). A birth lets you change this mid-year — up to $5,000/year of pre-tax money for daycare. That's guaranteed tax savings at your bracket.
4. Update your W-4. A new dependent changes your withholding. Update it so you're not over-withholding all year (or under-withholding and owing in April).
5. File for parental leave / short-term disability early. Some employers pay birth leave through short-term disability. Approvals take weeks — start the claim before the due date if you can.

The income-protection layer (do within 90 days)

This is the single most important move new parents skip. If someone now depends on your income, that income needs to be insured.

• Term life insurance — not whole life. A common starting point is 10–15× your annual income on a 20- or 30-year level term. Term is cheap because it's pure insurance; whole life costs several times more for coverage you mostly won't need once the kids are grown and the mortgage is gone.
• Insure a non-earning spouse too. A stay-at-home parent's "salary" is the replacement cost of full-time childcare — very real money. A smaller term policy protects the working parent from that sudden bill.
• Check your disability insurance. You're far more likely to be unable to work for a stretch than to die young. Employer long-term disability often replaces only ~60% of base pay (and is taxable if the employer paid the premium).

The accounts (months 1–3, in priority order)

1. Fund your own retirement and emergency fund first. The instinct is to pour money into the baby's accounts. Resist it — there are loans for college, none for retirement, and an emergency fund protects the whole family.
2. Open a 529 once the SSN arrives. Tax-free growth for education, and many states give a tax deduction for contributions. Even $50/month started at birth compounds for 18 years.
3. Bump your HSA if you're on an HDHP. Adding a dependent moves you to the family HSA limit — more triple-tax-advantaged room, right as medical spending rises.
4. Skip custodial (UTMA) accounts unless you have a specific reason. The money becomes the child's outright at 18–21, and it counts against financial aid more heavily than a 529.

The 30-minute estate basics

• Name a guardian. This is the real reason new parents need a will — it's how you decide who raises your child if you can't. Without it, a court decides.
• Update beneficiaries. Add your spouse and/or a trust to retirement accounts and life insurance. Beneficiary designations override your will, so this matters more than people expect.
• Get a basic will (or trust). A simple will covers most families; a trust can avoid probate and control when a child receives money. State-specific — a flat-fee estate attorney is often a few hundred dollars.

What not to do

• Don't buy whole life "for the baby." Insurance replaces income, and a baby has none. The pitch sounds caring; the economics favor the salesperson.
• Don't over-fund the 529 before your retirement and emergency fund are solid. Over-funded 529s have limited uses if the child doesn't need them.
• Don't raid retirement for nursery and baby costs. The tax-plus-penalty hit dwarfs the purchase.
• Don't assume enrollment is automatic. Adding the baby to your health plan is a step you have to take — and the window is short.

When to get a human

A fee-only fiduciary (or a flat-fee estate attorney) is worth the hour if:

• You have meaningful assets and want a trust, not just a will.
• One parent is leaving the workforce and you're re-planning on a single income.
• You have equity comp, a business, or a blended-family situation that complicates beneficiaries.

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This page is educational only and does not constitute personalized financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Insurance needs, 529 rules, and estate documents vary by state and situation. Talk to a licensed professional before making final decisions.